Nothing in that sentence says she is a victim.
Yes, it is, right here in fact:
I said I have seen her face prejudice and discrimination and it was very hurtful for me to see it.
So she
faced prejudice and discrimination which would make her...a...what? A victim of it.
That is your unwarranted conjecture.
Flash, my business is words and
you chose to use the words you used in a very specific way.
Unless...you're going to admit to just lazily posting shit on an anonymous forum? In which case, OK.
We don't all see victimhood in every action.
Well, it doesn't really matter what you think, Flash, because you've never been a victim.
A real victim, I mean, not one of your own making.
You literally said your wife "faced prejudice and discrimination". So if she faced prejudice and discrimination, how wasn't she also a victim of prejudice and discrimination?
I don't presume to speak for my wife but she has never described herself as a victim.
Probably because she wants to feel strong and not victimized, but I can guarantee you that she's holding back from you specifically because of the way you patronize her, like you're doing on this thread. Whether or not you choose to admit to being a victim doesn't change whether or not there was action taken against you, like calling you a slur or something.
I've been called almost every slur for Jewish person in the book, and I laugh every time I am, but that still doesn't mean I'm not being victimized by the action of the slur.
You're not half as smart as you want people to think you are. You should read Aristotle's Poetics because you might realize your own toxicity if put in rhetorical terms.