Dutch Uncle
* Tertia Optio * Defend the Constitution
WTF?
Life is funny. I'm facing about 20 years before my expiration date, but you have over 40. Live a little.
Follow your heart, but lead with your brain.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...510/should-you-follow-your-heart-or-your-head
The upshot? Listening to your heart is something that will more likely hurt you than not, especially if you’re under any kind of time pressure. Once you’ve had time to sort through all the factors, both rational and irrational, your judgment should be clearer. Decisions to take risks may in fact benefit you, but just take your time, whenever possible, to gain the most fulfillment from those decisions.
Despite the wording of the conclusion, reading the article shows that your feelings, your heart, matters, but your brain is part of you too and the part that is most rational. Follow, not dominate.
Your heart matters, but listen to your own reason.