I am not conflating, I am explaining. I asked you if the laws of your nation, which Jesus said you should follow, allow you to do that, you did not answer and simply restated the same question.
If the laws of your nation do allow the elders to stone a child you brought before them for being a drunken lazy jerk who didn't change his ways when you told him to, then yes, this would be acceptable according to the religion, if the laws do not allow the elders to stone your child after convicting him of being a drunken lazy jerk who didn't do what you told them to do then your own religion tells you it would not be acceptable, your god told you to follow the laws.
Basically, there is some guy out there arguing we should be able to do this, but they advocate to change the law to allow it... because they understand that their religion does not allow them to do something like this if it is against the law.
In short, you want this to be "okay" per the religion because you think it is awful and you want to tell them their religion tells them to do this. But it doesn't, and I explained why.