If you're a woman, your values are probably mostly stupid

anonymoose said:
Possibly. You don’t think breaking the drawer and throwing it at me without explanation was an overreaction?:thinking:
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See


I knew it


There was more to the story


And YOU never blow a gasket huh


That is part of a long term relationship


Mind reading is a part of it


CONTEXT

You presented the story as a person who didn’t know the relationship


Life had gotten to her in that moment

She was already mad at shit in the world

Went to get something to eat and EVEN THAT just couldn’t be simple


She had it


Just like you do sometimes


You didn’t help create that safe harbor

You know damn well what she was saying without words


Imagine this


When she was at the post office you fixed the broken drawer and made sure it wasn’t over stuffed when you put shit back


She comes home already pissed at the world and goes to get something to eat

She notices you fixed the drawer and made sure it wasn’t over stuffed


She makes and eats that sandwich


She feels a bit better


She’s so glad to be home from the mess outside


She looks over at you and remembers you fixed the drawer like she has been asking for


She gets an urge to bake your favorite cookies


You smell those cookies baking and it takes you back to the first time you tasted those cookies of hers

You remember how happy she was when you told her those were the best cookies you ever ate


You two snuggle on the couch and munch delicious cookies and ponder about how lucky the two of you are to have a safe harbor from the world


Then you think about your guys friends and their failed marriages and how if they saw the two of you munching delicious cookies and being happy


They would chide you about having your nutsack emptied by your wife


You then realize those miserable assholes love your wife’s cookies too


And you laugh in your own mind about how you get to be the cookie nazi

And crack up at the idea of telling your guy friends


“No cookies for you”



All the cookies are yours
 
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anonymoose said:
No way I go to a marriage counselor. Every couple I know that has been to one either got divorced or their marriage is still as shitty if not worse than before.
Plus I can’t possibly see the mrs. doing that either.
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A counselor can’t force people to try


They can only help you sus out the relationships problems
 
anonymoose said:
No way I go to a marriage counselor. Every couple I know that has been to one either got divorced or their marriage is still as shitty if not worse than before.
Plus I can’t possibly see the mrs. doing that either.
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Your choice. Enjoy the rest of your life without change out of fear that change would only make it worse. :thup:

https://www.healthline.com/health/relationships/does-marriage-counseling-work
Yes, marriage counseling works. That’s not to say it can save every relationship. Whether it will work for you depends on several factors. The most important thing is that you’re both fully invested in the process.

Let’s look at some signs that marriage counseling might work for you, what the process is like, and how to get started....
 
Men who fail at being husbands and fathers: men who are perpetually 12 years Old and think being loving and thoughtful will make their nuts fall off


It’s called toxic manhood
 
evince said:
Men who fail at being husbands and fathers: men who are perpetually 12 years Old and think being loving and thoughtful will make their nuts fall off


It’s called toxic manhood
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I always called people like that immature man-childs. JPP has several examples. :)
 
evince said:
See


I knew it
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No, I used “possibly “ as hypothetical .
Actually Dutch hit the nail on the head - displaced anger. Probably combined with bipolar disorder.
I am the punching bag.
The post office kept fucking up mail forwarding while we were in Hawaii.
The phone call just before the spilled water in the golf cart was from the bank that froze her account because she tried to wire funds to Germany so our daughter could make the down payment on their first house.
So now I either punch back or walk, depending on what I feel like doing at the time.
 
anonymoose said:
No, I used “possibly “ as hypothetical .
Actually Dutch hit the nail on the head - displaced anger. Probably combined with bipolar disorder.
I am the punching bag.
The post office kept fucking up mail forwarding while we were in Hawaii.
The phone call just before the spilled water in the golf cart was from the bank that froze her account because she tried to wire funds to Germany so our daughter could make the down payment on their first house.
So now I either punch back or walk, depending on what I feel like doing at the time.
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Buy a better one. Teach her how to use it. Great way to work off the edges....cheaper than a counselor or a new fridge.

 
anonymoose said:
No, I used “possibly “ as hypothetical .
Actually Dutch hit the nail on the head - displaced anger. Probably combined with bipolar disorder.
I am the punching bag.
The post office kept fucking up mail forwarding while we were in Hawaii.
The phone call just before the spilled water in the golf cart was from the bank that froze her account because she tried to wire funds to Germany so our daughter could make the down payment on their first house.
So now I either punch back or walk, depending on what I feel like doing at the time.
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So again you ignored the lesson?


Learn boyo
 
evince said:
See


I knew it


There was more to the story


And YOU never blow a gasket huh


That is part of a long term relationship


Mind reading is a part of it


CONTEXT

You presented the story as a person who didn’t know the relationship


Life had gotten to her in that moment

She was already mad at shit in the world

Went to get something to eat and EVEN THAT just couldn’t be simple


She had it


Just like you do sometimes


You didn’t help create that safe harbor

You know damn well what she was saying without words


Imagine this


When she was at the post office you fixed the broken drawer and made sure it wasn’t over stuffed when you put shit back


She comes home already pissed at the world and goes to get something to eat

She notices you fixed the drawer and made sure it wasn’t over stuffed


She makes and eats that sandwich


She feels a bit better


She’s so glad to be home from the mess outside


She looks over at you and remembers you fixed the drawer like she has been asking for


She gets an urge to bake your favorite cookies


You smell those cookies baking and it takes you back to the first time you tasted those cookies of hers

You remember how happy she was when you told her those were the best cookies you ever ate


You two snuggle on the couch and munch delicious cookies and ponder about how lucky the two of you are to have a safe harbor from the world


Then you think about your guys friends and their failed marriages and how if they saw the two of you munching delicious cookies and being happy


They would chide you about having your nutsack emptied by your wife


You then realize those miserable assholes love your wife’s cookies too


And you laugh in your own mind about how you get to be the cookie nazi

And crack up at the idea of telling your guy friends


“No cookies for you”



All the cookies are yours
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Wouldn’t you prefer this life?
 
Dutch Uncle said:
As the annual summer silly season heats up, I expect both LW and RW terrorism. The RWers will probably blow up another daycare center and some LW looney will take a potshot at a politician or RW personality. Having Carlson get his head blown off on live TV would be a very interesting development to go with the multiple lawsuits against Fox and the general public concern about misinformation being fed to the public by people like Tucker.
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As long as neither side fucks with my dispensaries!
 
evince said:
See


I knew it


There was more to the story


And YOU never blow a gasket huh


That is part of a long term relationship


Mind reading is a part of it


CONTEXT

You presented the story as a person who didn’t know the relationship


Life had gotten to her in that moment

She was already mad at shit in the world

Went to get something to eat and EVEN THAT just couldn’t be simple


She had it


Just like you do sometimes


You didn’t help create that safe harbor

You know damn well what she was saying without words


Imagine this


When she was at the post office you fixed the broken drawer and made sure it wasn’t over stuffed when you put shit back


She comes home already pissed at the world and goes to get something to eat

She notices you fixed the drawer and made sure it wasn’t over stuffed


She makes and eats that sandwich


She feels a bit better


She’s so glad to be home from the mess outside


She looks over at you and remembers you fixed the drawer like she has been asking for


She gets an urge to bake your favorite cookies


You smell those cookies baking and it takes you back to the first time you tasted those cookies of hers

You remember how happy she was when you told her those were the best cookies you ever ate


You two snuggle on the couch and munch delicious cookies and ponder about how lucky the two of you are to have a safe harbor from the world


Then you think about your guys friends and their failed marriages and how if they saw the two of you munching delicious cookies and being happy


They would chide you about having your nutsack emptied by your wife


You then realize those miserable assholes love your wife’s cookies too


And you laugh in your own mind about how you get to be the cookie nazi

And crack up at the idea of telling your guy friends


“No cookies for you”



All the cookies are yours
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or maybe she's not a nice person. is that possible?

You 'believe all women' types are extremely sexist and apologetic for evil.
 
AssHatZombie said:
or maybe she's not a nice person. is that possible?

You 'believe all women' types are extremely sexist and apologetic for evil.
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If you were as smart as you believe yourself to be, you'd go to a more direct source to ask if the woman is a nice person or not.
 
evince said:
AssHatZombie said:
or maybe she's not a nice person. is that possible?

You 'believe all women' types are extremely sexist and apologetic for evil.
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Why did you pick a bad person?

You picked trump too

You seem to have a pattern in your life
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The typical reason is self-hate coupled with being a wuss.

This is very common among American males who never take responsibility for themselves. They are weak and choose to never man-up because they are scared. AHZ is a classic case. Sadly, he's not alone. There's a reason 99.9% of JPP RWNJs are keyboard warriors; harmless old geezers who talk big and do little.
 
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