Interesting question, & I have not read the entire thread past page one but I think that is totally wrong...
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you".....
Mr Shithead likes hitting others w/ a hammer, if the question is asked "is hitting ppl in the head w/ a hammer good", there could be a difference of opinion, but if the question that is asked "How would you like to be hit in the head w/ a hammer" the likelihood of unanimity is almost assured.
Masochists exist everywhere. Following your "do unto others", you're inviting someone like that to tie you up and whip you.
The appropriate phrase is "Do unto others as they would like to be treated, not how you want to be treated."