Really? Everyone knows what he was referring to when he made the "n-word" reference, and it wasn't "nincompoop", and you and I and everyone here knows it. You can masturbate with him to your heart's delight...I'm clear. You're the one that refuses to make a positive ruling on the use of the n-word, and all other racial pejoratives. It's called "the lack of leadership". Or cowardice.
No, everybody knows that you are being pretensive here. You deliberately pretended you never saw the original post, even though it was both quoted and referred to later. Your argument is that we all had the same deliberate pretense, we didn't. Plus we all saw the post.
Cowardice would be to cave to your attempt to "force" me to agree. It would be easier just to pretend I agreed with you, you'd give me a "thank you" click and use the post "against" DY, on and on...
Instead I point out what actually happened. As it stands you two really should go to the War Zone, get a room and hash this out rather than hijack a thread to talk about DY's daddy.