If my son said he was in love with an online girl I would insist he meet her in person before continuing that serious a relationship.
" Oh its OK dad I am going to meet her later."
"Well son you said you were going to meet her how did it go?"
Um well ....she is wonderful just like I thought"
I never saw the Dad say that he met the young woman.
Teo May have told his dad he met her.
Now how many young men lie to their parents about a relationship with a girl??
Doesn't it seem strange that after all that time they supposedly dated that they never saw each other or in this day or social media either skype'd or facetimed each other? And then you go public about this person being your gf and your story garners national media attention and puts you on the cover of national publications? That alone doesn't pass the sniff test to me (this is not even discussing the varying stories family members told etc.).
I read this article in the NY Times not long ago that so many people are facetiming and skyping etc, that there are plastic surgeons now who have specific procedures to make you look better on that. Because it highlights and really emphasizes certain angles, like jawlines or something. I thought it was really neck and neck between that and women getting their pinky toes removed to wear certain shoes as the most retarded thing I'd ever heard. I do facetime a lot since i got an iphone and I don't give a crap how I look on it. Like I am going to get plastic surgery so my jawline looks tighter on facetime?
Anyway, no I don't believe you could have an internet "relationship" today and not expose yourself fairly quickly. I don't think you could do it even ten years ago, but definitely not today. Everyone video chats today.
Haha. I hear you on people being humiliated. I don't find joy in seeing people getting humiliated either (ok, I'm sure there are a couple people I would make exceptions for but I'm saying as a general belief). To truly appreciate this story I think one needs to understand Notre Dame's history in context of college football. And within that the amount of positive publicity Manti Te'o was able to generate as a result of this story that benefitted both he and the University. And now it turns out to be false and he may have been in on it? At the moment my sympathy for him is nowhere near as strong as yours.
Note to the haters, I still want to see Te'o drafted to my Seahawks, and would still call myself a fan of his. I just think he's a bit stupid...
Yeah, I think we all need to remember one important thing, while all the Manti jokes are funny, a person who never existed, is dead....
I read this article in the NY Times not long ago that so many people are facetiming and skyping etc, that there are plastic surgeons now who have specific procedures to make you look better on that. Because it highlights and really emphasizes certain angles, like jawlines or something. I thought it was really neck and neck between that and women getting their pinky toes removed to wear certain shoes as the most retarded thing I'd ever heard. I do facetime a lot since i got an iphone and I don't give a crap how I look on it. Like I am going to get plastic surgery so my jawline looks tighter on facetime?
Anyway, no I don't believe you could have an internet "relationship" today and not expose yourself fairly quickly. I don't think you could do it even ten years ago, but definitely not today. Everyone video chats today.
Exactly. As anyone who follows college football knows it's rare for a defensive player to garner serious Heisman votes. You kind of had a perfect storm here where Te'o was an excellent player who played on a Notre Dame team that was finally relevent again after being away from the top of the polls for basically the last 20 years and he had this great heart wrenching story. All that helped get him to finish number two in the Heisman voting.
Additionally all this positive publicity would only help his draft stock which of course would mean more money in his pocket.
Let's take a look at some of the thing the media reported:
Brian Te'o is Manti Te'o's dad. None of that shit happens with a person that does not exist. I'm not discounting the possibility that there was a real woman he actually met once, but the idea that Te'o met this same person in Hawaii every once in a while but would never Skype or video chat is just nonsense.
This is why I don't think it plausible that Te'o didn't know what was going on. It's possible he was duped initially, but there's no way he didn't know that she didn't exist long before her supposed death.
his grandma died, he could have used that the same way
No chance he falls to the Seahawks. My Steelers will be taking him with their number one pick and Lacey with thier second. The irony is awesome.
Yeah, and she'd be alive today if she were carrying a gun.
Wow, that is crazy. Young kids are technologically sophisticated today. I would find it hard to believe two people who go to two of the top universities in our country don't know how to use skype or facetime and while dating cross country have no desire to see each other while talking.
Throw in the fact that she supposedly had a serious car accident and he didn't go visit her and then she has leukiemia (sp) and he doesn't go visit her, a person he supposedly loves, it doesn't pass the sniff test to me.