My hubby and I both worked for the same company, when we got engaged he went to work for another company because we did not want to have all of our income coming from one employer since there was talk of the parent company filing chapter 11 and restructuring layoffs were due to come.
But when we became serious, we both went straight to the President of the Company we worked for and told them, so that there was no "secrets" involved. Perhaps because I held the "higher" position within the company and no one ever even thought about a "female" harrassing a male back then, (before fatal attraction and other movies
) it was all A-ok with the Company)
When I worked for Dillards, they encouraged marriage between associates and hired husband/wife teams because they felt that they "basically" owned you and one spouse would not mess up, because it could hurt the other spouse type thing....
My husband and I, both ended up working for them at the same time over a 4 year period, him in the store's management and me in the Buyer's office....?
I agree with Darla.
to me, it is pretty hard NOT to have some sort of relationship with someone at work, if you work there long enough...keeping it with someone on the same level is the general rule of thumb to make it work...except those that I mentioned like Dillard's did not care what level the two of you are on imo...