care4,I am totally with you that should men bare as much reponsibility with a child as the women. I have to wonder tho,how many women have abortions without even telling the father? QUOTE]
I can tell you how many...probably most all of them imo.
Especially when you look at the statistic that 40% of all children born today are single mothers. To me, that spells out some clear facts....these women had to tell the father's in most cases and guess what, they are still having those babies on their own.
So, imo, those women that had abortions involved their man in the decision also, and their man had no intentions of doing "good" by it, thus the abortion.
I know that cases can be brought up where there is a father to be that wants to have his gal deliver his child, and where she has proceded to abort it....but those cases are few and far between in reality and are used by the right in my humble opinion to distort the facts, and the facts are men are not holding up to their responsibility of fatherhood....at least not nearly as much as women who now are showing their end of the responsibility of delivering their out of wedlock mistake and bringing forth her offspring and motherhood, with or without the father.
care