I just would like to share some personal stuff on this note. In my family, the difference in one generation ... from whence my dad came and where my mother came from. I’ll try to show a couple of pics, the first of my dad and his brother, the second of my great grandfather on my mothers side.
My dad was poor. Dirt poor. My mom came from a mixed race Native American/Scottish family. They did well for themselves, raising a family of 5 and improved their status from poor to middle class. The American dream, as they explained it to me. My siblings and I have done well, some better than others, but we still continue to believe in the American dream and have instilled that belief into our children. I pray that my family continues to do well.
We have family reunions every year ... except for 2020, stupid COVID ... and on both sides of the family we have between 100 and 150 people show up for the multi-day affairs. We have a common bond of family and America. There are some who haven’t fared as well, mostly due to making poor choices along the way. A few of my relatives are in prison. But most have improved and our ancestors would be proud seeing how our raising took hold and produced.
I know similar stories can be told in other countries but I always feel so blessed and fortunate to have been born in the USA, and I still teach my kids that through hard work and good morals and ethics a person can accomplish whatever they desire. I’ve seen it for years. But I’ve seen the flip side as well.