I blame feminism for my Women's Studies course.
Well, maybe there's one thing Feminism can take the fall for.
I blame feminism for my Women's Studies course.
BAC, is there a non-pompous way to say that those who are failing not only to pull their weight, but failing to even help their own survive should be chastised? I don't give a damn if the subject is black, white, or polka dotted. There was a time men, we are talking men here, were held to a higher standard than women.
I'm not saying we should go back to those days, but someone or someones must be held to account for the children. It shouldn't be 'all of us'. We don't 'all' have sex without accountability. In fact, society should hold all accountable.
Ok, I've boxed myself in. Perhaps Cosby, Obama, and the rest of us should really hold those that procreate, without the benefits of marriage, accountable. What say you?
obama is a fool,anyone who supports him is also supporting a pessimistic fool with no regard for humanity
So the problem is with those trying to address the problem? Not those that create the problem? Seems pretty much a cop out to me.You could have the greatest message the world has ever heard, but if you don't know how to talk to people, no one will hear it. There is indeed a non-pompous, non-arrogant way to address this issue, but to address it with sincerity and with better resolution in mind, one must hear different perspectives.
Fatherhood is critically important to the growth of children and society and the courts should treat it as if it's important.
Marriage really can't be used as any barometer or benchmark in this society because children happen regardless. However, if the goal is to bring fathers and their children together for the betterment of society, then society should engage in real conversations about how to go about it.
So the problem is with those trying to address the problem? Not those that create the problem? Seems pretty much a cop out to me.
You had me agreeing with much of what you said until "The chronic near Great Depression levels of unemployment, not to mention rampant job discrimination, endemic failing public schools, and stigma of a criminal record virtually condemn many young black men to wear the tag of societal failures as men and fathers."
Unemployment levels are not at Great Depression levels. The rampant job discrimination is something that I would question. I am not saying that there is no discrimination, but "rampant"?
But the last two items I have a bigger problem with. The failing public schools and the stigma of a criminal record are both things that the individual had a hand in. You will never hear me singing the praises of the american public school system. But if you fail there, its largely your own fault. If a student puts forth the effort, they can learn what they need to learn. The fact that so many are functionally illiterate is largely due to their own lack of effort at it. There have been far too many people who went thru the same schools and the same situations and succeeded to make this a valid reason for failure. At some point these young people had to choose between studying and getting somewhere or wearing their pants hanging off their ass and being "cool".
As for the criminal record, other than the ones with drug possession records, they all committed a crime that carries more than the sentence served. On the one hand these felons are stimatized, but they are also seen as heros in many circles. Thats how the whole droopy pants fashion started. Now I am not debating that all blacks in prison are guilty. But those who DID commit the crime have to bear the responsibility themselves.
There is something fundamentally wrong when a large social group is losing its members more often to murder than to any other cause of death. And those doing the killing are within that same social group. Can anyone claim its a coincidence that the most popular music in that group glorifies crime, gangs, and is demeaning to women? Isn't it a sign that something is wrong when academic success is branded as betrayal of that same group?
I understand that both Cosby and Obama may have put things in a lousy way. I have not read much of what Farrakhan has said on the matter. But I would hope he preaches that the cure is to stand up and be responsible for your own lives. I would hope he preaches to get an education, stay clear of gangs and drugs, and to look to your own future.
Otherwise, he may have a better delivery, but the message isn't going to help.
I never denied that a criminal record stigmatizes someone. I just stated that the criminal act was a choice by the individual. The problem is not that a criminal record stigmatizes people, its that they did something to get a criminal record. Arguing about the stigma is treating a symptom not the cause.
As for the baggy pants, I was basing my statement on what I have read in numerous places. If I am mistaken, it is because I have not spent a great deal of time researching it. Not because I am choosing to believe things that suit my viewpoint.
As for my comment about felons being viewed as heros, I did not say the entire black community views them as such. I said they were viewed as heros in certain circles. And I think that is the case in many inner city groups of young people. I base this on information I obtained while taking a course designed to encourage teachers to work in the poorer schools and the inner city schools. Part of what we were taught was that constant recognition of academic achievement can cause a great deal of social problems for kids in inner city schools. I was taught that the honors awards programs, very often, are held with little warning because of a tendency towards absenteeism by the recipients at the event. And I was also taught in this course, that very often a convicted felon can have as much, if not more, influence on the kids as a teacher or someone attempting to mentor them. That the felony conviction was not a social stigma.
I never said that the music I talked about was exclusive to the black community. I know full well that it is not. But to deny that it glorifies violence and demeans women is to ignore a large portion of that music. When the main art form kids are exposed to condones criminal behavior I believe that there is an influence there. I believe that the overtly violent music is a bad influence on white kids too. But that wasn't the topic we were discussing.
'Perhaps you should first educate yourself on what Farrakhan said if you're going to comment on him .. and perhaps you should research how successful the Nation has traditionally and continues to be on family life and fatherhood before you comment on what you don't know."
I did, in fact, say that I did not know much about what Rev. Farrakhan said. I was commenting on what I thought his message should say. I did not comment on him at all really. There is no need to be so condescending about my lack of knowledge about him. If that is what he is saying then we agree. If its not then we disagree.
I am not some rich white kid who is repeating what he heard from Rush Limbaugh. I grew up lower middle class, and spent several years very poor. I have stood in line with my food stamps and lived in government housing. I am not saying that qualifies me as an expert, but it has given me some first hand knowledge of some of the problems.
If I am mistaken about some facts, it is not due to my wanting to oppress or suppress anyone or any facts. It is out of genuine ignorance on the topic.
I would appreciate being informed or helped to see. But if you are going to slam Obama and Cosby for their method of delivering their message, you might look at your last post. The way you delivered your message was far more hostile than I deserved. It was also condescending as hell. And your assumption that I am the enemy is an outright mistake.
Solitary,
Question .. Why should African-Americans, particularly young ones, have any respect for police, the courts, and the law .. given that they have no respect for African-Americans? The war on drugs is nothing more than a war on African-Americans.
I'm not a criminal, never have been .. but I also have no respect for the police, courts, or the law. I abide by the law, but that's different than respecting it.
Why would I respect police who continue to beat, terrorize, murder, and set up innocent black people?
Why would I respect a court system that hands out racist injustice on a daily basis?
Wow I had completely cleared up my ignore list and now you jump on it.all blacks do is act "gangsta" has they call it and call each other the "n" word and the men get the woman pregant and they brag about it saying they got a notch on their belt.black males really are the scum of the earth
According to this report (http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/sandlle.htm) almost 25% of working police officers are from a minority group. Do you include them in the "no respect" section?
I didn't answer your question, BAC, because I was trying to do a little research online. But work has been demanding my attention (imagine the gall of them expecting me to do work) so I wasn't as successful.
I know the studies that have shown a big inequality in the justice system.
But I would like to see information that checked the corrolation between having money and the rates of being incarcerated.
Without having facts to back up my assumption, I would guess that the white population has a higher percentage of people with a decent amount of money. I would suggest that it is the money, not the color of skin, that is the biggest difference between doing time and getting probation.
After all, if two men are caught with drugs, and one shows up in court in an orange jumpsuit with a public defender and the other shows up in a nice suit with a lawyer he hired, which would you think would go to jail?