I mentioned this in the other thread, but it bears repeating. I was a VP with a large corporation and was the decision maker for a pretty significant budget. I was not allowed to accept anything of value over $25 from anyone who could potentially do business with the company. I understood and abided by that decision. That means vendors couldn't pick up my check for a meal, or for a bar tab. Could I go to a hospitality suite at a conference? Sure could. Could they take me on a vacation or put me up in a hotel room? Not a chance.
This is the post Jimmy Carter sentiment (remember when he complained about businesses writing off three martini lunches?).
I've accepted literally thousands of dollars of free stuff during my working career,
and that was all in my late twenties and early thirties before I was a union rep.
Once I became one, they took me away from working with vendors. (Influence over purchasing decisions get you perks, but you still do your job properly.)
Reasonable enough, I suppose, but I wasn't shy about accepting free stuff when it was offered.
Lunches, dinners, theater and sporting event tickets, Christmas gifts (wine, liquor, personalized golf balls, etc,) and other stuff.
One important vendor even offered me "companionship opportunities" on a business trip, but for all my faults, I wasn't an adulterer. A friendly flirt, perhaps, but that's all.
I never gave it a thought, but then again, I'm not your classic "woke" liberal.
Socialized medicine, accessible education , and union-friendly labor laws were always my big issues. That's about it.
I never actively opposed the goody-two shoes stuff, but I never prioritized it, either.