Good philosophy since grudges tie people down. The old adage "If you seek revenge, first dig two graves" is relevant.
Petty grudges detract from ones main goals. Taking down an opponent with humor, wit and logic is a far better course of action.
I avoid many threads on this forum, mainly based upon who started them. Sometimes I'll look but, almost invariably, they just pages of shit-posting to each other. Their choice, but not what I'm looking for.
I've enjoyed your threads and the chit-chat threads more. Some of the political threads bring out great points before they become swarmed with shitposters. As long as there's one or two people in such threads willing to actually discuss the topic, it's worth sticking around. Most don't since the smart posters are avoiding those threads for the same reasons I've mentioned.