What Happened to all the nice guys?

Dilloduck said:
... Nice guys can be hot too. Keep trying
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Yes, they can. I married one. Wasn't even looking, either. We met at a conference and spent a lot of our free time together because we were comfortable together and enjoyed each other's company. When we returned home, to our different cities, we realized that we'd really enjoyed each other's company and wanted to spend more time together. Sixteen years later, things just keep getting better and better, day by day.

I think that in any relationship you have to accept and respect each other as who you are and build on that. Whatever it is that sparks attraction and develops into love will be influenced by how well you nurture that.

I buy my own flowers, but we both do things spontaneously that will surprise and please each other. Often those things are really small, but they build.
 
You guys whine too much... seriously. I was the dorky nice guy in High School. My Senior year I was cute to one girl, dated her, and instantly became the hot guy with blue eyes that all the girls wanted. I stayed faithful for six years and guess what that did for my prospects? It carried them further! I literally had six girls fighting over me all at once. A faithful guy, not ugly, fun to be around, and isn't a total asshole, geez! You dumbasses thinking you gotta be assholes made me miserable because I had to break 5 girls hearts when I decided I loved just one of them. It's not a hard template to follow you douchebags. Get over your ex, it was a learning experience!
 
LMAO....!

Bottom line..'What Happened to all the Nice Guys'? They grew up and are living a problem free life as 'Happy Bachelors'..............:cof1:
 
Hey Thorn and DD sound like they have great relationships going. Maybe those are the people some here should listen to on this issue if they truely want to do figure it all out and have a good relationship.

Those who just want to give up and be alone forever can take BBs example.
 
I had my first wife leave me for my sister-in-law, and the worst nightmare of a psycho after her. I've never known a man as intentionally cruel as that woman.
 
Solitary said:
I had my first wife leave me for my sister-in-law, and the worst nightmare of a psycho after her. I've never known a man as intentionally cruel as that woman.
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I'm sorry that happened to you. As far as cruelty goes, I don't think it's in any way gender-specific, though perhaps some of the ways it's expressed can be.
 
Darla said:
Tiana you know what I’m starting to think? I’m starting to think that to certain guys here, “nice guy” is the same code as “she has a good personality”.

In other words; hot chicks are supposed to date ugly short guys because they think they’re so “nice” and they don’t like fat ugly girls either.
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now you're getting it..
 
LMAO@Desh again!

Desh said:
Hey Thorn and DD sound like they have great relationships going. Maybe those are the people some here should listen to on this issue if they truely want to do figure it all out and have a good relationship.

Those who just want to give up and be alone forever can take BBs example.
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But darlin' I am not alone...I just have my own place and space and the others theirs...I am too old to change my ways for anyone...and even when younger I held these beliefs..be who you are and all will be well...who says you have to Marry to be happy?...ask any real bachelor with experience...he will also laugh at y'all and the Metro guys as well! Not saying marriage is bad...just for some people...guys as well as girls!
 
DigitalDave said:
You guys whine too much... seriously. I was the dorky nice guy in High School. ......... Get over your ex, it was a learning experience!
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To be fair, you are a lot hotter than the whining dbags on this thread though.
 
Solitary said:
I had my first wife leave me for my sister-in-law, and the worst nightmare of a psycho after her. I've never known a man as intentionally cruel as that woman.
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Translation:
Solitary sucks at finding mates.
 
Battleborne said:
But darlin' I am not alone...I just have my own place and space and the others theirs...I am too old to change my ways for anyone...and even when younger I held these beliefs..be who you are and all will be well...who says you have to Marry to be happy?...ask any real bachelor with experience...he will also laugh at y'all and the Metro guys as well! Not saying marriage is bad...just for some people...guys as well as girls!
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Never said there was anhything wrong with being alone BB. If family history plays out I will likely be alone for years after my Man is gone. It a valid choice but it is a choice.
 
LadyT said:
Translation:
Solitary sucks at finding mates.
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Au contraire, I have known the love of two beautiful women. My first wife and I were together for 15 years, albeit the the last couple had some issues.

And I have been with my current wife for 7 years and having a grand time.

Just because I see some truth to the original post does not make mean I have had no success in romance.
 
LOL...so true!

Solitary said:
Au contraire, I have known the love of two beautiful women. My first wife and I were together for 15 years, albeit the the last couple had some issues.

And I have been with my current wife for 7 years and having a grand time.

Just because I see some truth to the original post does not make mean I have had no success in romance.
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Mine was the opposite first one out of 'boing and a opp's'...only lasted one and a half years...the second like you great first 10 years...then the last few had issues...never married again...and I am a 'Happy Camper'...don't have to worry about courts and loss of income for a mistake!:cool:
 
Solitary said:
I had my first wife leave me for my sister-in-law, and the worst nightmare of a psycho after her. I've never known a man as intentionally cruel as that woman.
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Wow now that would make one hell of a movie.

Get to writting the scrip and make a bundle off it.

But seriously that is some crazy stuff. Was the sister in law your brothers wife?

That would be awesome material for a script. Two brothers left by their wives for each other. Two brothers healing and figuring out how and why it happened to them. A great vehicle for a "sideways" type movie.
 
Desh said:
Wow now that would make one hell of a movie.

Get to writting the scrip and make a bundle off it.

But seriously that is some crazy stuff. Was the sister in law your brothers wife?

That would be awesome material for a script. Two brothers left by their wives for each other. Two brothers healing and figuring out how and why it happened to them. A great vehicle for a "sideways" type movie.
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Sound's more like a porno!
 
Solitary said:
Au contraire, I have known the love of two beautiful women. My first wife and I were together for 15 years, albeit the the last couple had some issues.

And I have been with my current wife for 7 years and having a grand time.

Just because I see some truth to the original post does not make mean I have had no success in romance.
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I was only kidding..... somewhat
 
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