Thanks for the clarification. Just so we're clear, I'm not a shrink, a counselor or anything other than a student of behavioral psychology. I'm more interested in finding out what makes people tick than in fixing them.
That point aside, hate is a very powerful and intense negative emotion. It does more harm to the hater than the hated. You can easily see the harm it has caused to the personalities on this forum who hate "liberals", "Obama", etc. It's easier to see the negative results in others than in oneself, but those results are the same. My best advice is to let it go or, even better, try to understand why so many people did vote for Trump or didn't vote for Hillary. It's flippant and, IMO, ignorant to believe they are just stupid, ignorant, fell for a lie, etc. The truth is most voted for the "R", not the "D" as opposed to voting for Trump the fucking moron.