I don't have a problem with people insulting others. If you believe you are treated wrongly, your answer is to also be wrong. Again, the "they do it too" confession.
I don't care who agrees with me, I'm just telling you what I see.
The choice is always up to you. You can either wallow with the "they" that you find reprehensible, or you can elevate yourself. Nobody can do that for you.
I don't believe you want to, I believe that you are at heart a racist who seeks justification for saying what he wants to say.