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WinterBorn said:
That was rich, wasn't it?

I should introduce him to a number of women I know who would find it equally amusing. They'd also prove him wrong.
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Most of the women I know would mock him mercilessly... but there are a couple that might just kick his ass too.... WIN WIN I say.
 
WinterBorn said:
So women "turn lesbian" to avoid kinky sex? lmao SM, that takes the cake for goofy theories. :palm:

Do you think being a lesbian makes them immune to being treated as a sex object? Do you think it even remotely removes the sexual harrassment from men?

I guess this fits nicely into your hero's idea that, for men, gay sex is far better than straight sex. And if we don't control gays then men will all turn gay for the pleasures offered. lol
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Originally Posted by Damn Yankee
The reason why lesbians don't like gay men points to the reason why some women turn lesbian and why some men turn gay. Women tend to have lower sex drive and less proclivity toward kinky sex, they get sick of being treated as sex objects so they give up on men altogether. Likewise, some men want more and kinkier sex, and can't find a woman to satisfy them. This also explains why lesbian relationships are inherently more stable than gay male relationships.
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OMG. Unbelievable. Some "alleged" heterosexual , waxes philosophical, as to why lesbians are lesbians...and I seriously doubt, if he understands women, in general, let alone gay women.
Please. When you don't know what you are talking about, say nothing. Better to be thought a fool, than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt.
I suggest DY find a link or a source to back up what he claims...because all what he has written is laughable. I've been in my "stable gay relationship" for the past 10 years. There goes another myth. Dumb. Dumb. Dumb.
 
Damn Yankee said:
Notice my multiple use of the word "some" along with your decision to ignore it.
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The use of the word "some" changes nothing about the ridiculousness of your post. The fact that you think any but a few very rare exceptions would "choose" their sexual orientation based on a desire to avoid kinky sex and men with high libidos is hilarious.

Thanks for the laughs.
 
poet said:
Originally Posted by Damn Yankee


OMG. Unbelievable. Some "alleged" heterosexual , waxes philosophical, as to why lesbians are lesbians...and I seriously doubt, if he understands women, in general, let alone gay women.
Please. When you don't know what you are talking about, say nothing. Better to be thought a fool, than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt.
I suggest DY find a link or a source to back up what he claims...because all what he has written is laughable. I've been in my "stable gay relationship" for the past 10 years. There goes another myth. Dumb. Dumb. Dumb.
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Damn Yankee said:
Notice my multiple use of the word "some" along with your decision to ignore it.
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And three's the charm. :)

Also noted is the use of homosexuality as an insult- not just by a liberal but by a liberal homosexual. :lol:
 
WinterBorn said:
The use of the word "some" changes nothing about the ridiculousness of your post. The fact that you think any but a few very rare exceptions would "choose" their sexual orientation based on a desire to avoid kinky sex and men with high libidos is hilarious.

Thanks for the laughs.
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I love it. As if he hadn't already destroyed his credibility. He done shot himself in the ass again. LOL.
 
Damn Yankee said:
And three's the charm. :)

Also noted is the use of homosexuality as an insult- not just by a liberal but by a liberal homosexual. :lol:
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When you post something as blatantly ignorant as you did, people are going to ridicule it.

I didn't see Poet call you homosexual. The fact that he added "alleged" to the description of you being a heterosexual is not calling you gay. Its just hedging his bet.
 
poet said:
I live 5 houses down from two lesbians. They are white, and from the Republican placards in their yard, last election, I figure them to be Republicans. Now I know they have gaydar, just like I do, and I'm sure they have pegged me, as I have them...but do you think that they would speak to me? Aren't we kindred spirits? On that basis alone, there should be some acknowledgment. So it's either sexism or racism that prevents them from cordiality. Some lesbians cannot stand gay men...and vice versa, oddly enough.
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It's possible that they do not define their entire life around their sexuality and therefore any "kindred" spirit based on sexuality may be overstated.

I don't hang with others because they are straight and we should therefore have that one thing in common. I also don't hang out with men because we have the same equipment and therefore a shared experience. I hang with people I like, because I like them.

The only reason you can think of is "racism" or sexism? What if they just don't want to hang with you because they think you are an oversensitive jerk?
 
poet said:
I love it. As if he hadn't already destroyed his credibility. He done shot himself in the ass again. LOL.
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careful now.... he has been trying to come out of the closet for years now.... if you start talking about him taking one in the ass again he is going to get really really excited. :)
 
Damocles said:
It's possible that they do not define their entire life around their sexuality and therefore any "kindred" spirit based on sexuality may be overstated.

I don't hang with others because they are straight and we should therefore have that one thing in common. I also don't hang out with men because we have the same equipment and therefore a shared experience. I hang with people I like, because I like them.

The only reason you can think of is "racism" or sexism? What if they just don't want to hang with you because they think you are an oversensitive jerk?
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If you've never spoken words with anyone, and your only interaction is passing each other by, 20 feet away, separated by a metal fence, how would I be known as an oversensitive jerk?
Why wouldn't you speak to someone? Chip on your shoulder? You're a jerk? Or you don't interact with the opposite sex, or folks of a different hue?
Now I must admit I saw them having a yard party and there was a black woman, in their midst...so I'm thinking it's "sexism" and not "racism" that is their problem. They don't like men...and one is a cop. Nothing worse than a conservative lesbian cop. IMHO. She has automatic issues.
 
Superfreak said:
careful now.... he has been trying to come out of the closet for years now.... if you start talking about him taking one in the ass again he is going to get really really excited. :)
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Oh look, another 'tard using "gay" as an insult. So I'm normal moral healthy and natural?. :)
 
poet said:
If you've never spoken words with anyone, and your only interaction is passing each other by, 20 feet away, separated by a metal fence, how would I be known as an oversensitive jerk?
Why wouldn't you speak to someone? Chip on your shoulder? You're a jerk? Or you don't interact with the opposite sex, or folks of a different hue?
Now I must admit I saw them having a yard party and there was a black woman, in their midst...so I'm thinking it's "sexism" and not "racism" that is their problem. They don't like men...and one is a cop. Nothing worse than a conservative lesbian cop. IMHO. She has automatic issues.
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Have you made any effort to speak with them? You assume "racism" or "sexism" because they don't approach you, maybe they assume the same about you. You say you've never spoken with them and assume a perfect "gaydar" that should make them approach you because you share gay yet you haven't approached them?

You see a cop, see a sign, then assume "racist" because you automatically believe they will dislike you, you don't approach them and just "stab" at any reason other than you, yourself, don't like them and make it clear through body language and reticence to even speak with them?

From what I have seen on this board so far you are extremely oversensitive, assume racism without evidence, and are unwilling to participate in even the minutest amount of introspection in order to resolve some of what you see in others. It is my experience that what you dislike in others is almost always what is most prevalent in yourself.
 
Damn Yankee said:
Read and weep: http://www.peoplecanchange.com/change/causes.php
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My first question would be, if people choose to be gay, how can there be unwanted homosexual attractions? Why would they need therapy to "become" straight. The website you linked states that, after undergoing Gender Affirming Therapy half the men reported an increase in heterosexual attractions. If its a choice, why would only half be attracted to the opposite gender when they don't want to be gay?
 
poet said:
I live 5 houses down from two lesbians. They are white, and from the Republican placards in their yard, last election, I figure them to be Republicans. Now I know they have gaydar, just like I do, and I'm sure they have pegged me, as I have them...but do you think that they would speak to me? Aren't we kindred spirits? On that basis alone, there should be some acknowledgment. So it's either sexism or racism that prevents them from cordiality. Some lesbians cannot stand gay men...and vice versa, oddly enough.
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Wow! 5 whole houses down and you've got your gaydar going! You're so chic. So "Now", aren't you Miss Thing?

I think they wouldn't talk to you for the same reason my gay, black, conservative friend wouldn't. Pompous assholes of any stripe are just plain "no fun". Their overblown egos just suck every last bit of oxygen from the room and render people addlepated.

Good thing you have a partner of 10 years at 58. Chances of landing and grooming another poor soul who would put up with your pomposity and arrogance are slim to none.
 
Damocles said:
Have you made any effort to speak with them? You assume "racism" or "sexism" because they don't approach you, maybe they assume the same about you. You say you've never spoken with them and assume a perfect "gaydar" that should make them approach you because you share gay yet you haven't approached them?
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Damocles...use common sense. Of course I've tried speaking to them, and they ignored me. Now what?
 
WinterBorn said:
My first question would be, if people choose to be gay, how can there be unwanted homosexual attractions?
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No, he didn't go there! CNN just had a special on about a man who was a case study, who went through the therapy (by the psychologist, who was later charged with renting a gigalo for a Euro trip companion and late nite massages), and agonized over his troubled life, and wound up committing suicide. Sexual orientation cannot be altered..anymore than a straight person can be made "gay". You either have proclivities one way or another, and you can fool yourself into thinking otherwise.
 
Damn Yankee said:
Read and weep: "93% said they had had other sexual experiences -- including pornography, sexual fantasy and sex play with other boys -- as children or youth, and of those who did, 93% said they believed these experiences contributed to their SSA feelings." http://www.peoplecanchange.com/change/causes.php
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There is a problem with your selected quote. As the linked website states: "(Keep in mind that this is not a survey of the beliefs of the general "gay" population -- those who have accepted a gay identity and are happy in that life. Rather, it is a survey of the beliefs of those who are seeking to overcome or minimize homosexual desires. Gays may or may not answer these questions differently.)"
 
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