Hey...
this should stop.  I apologize for ever implying or hinting at the the fact that southern man did anything untoward with his kids.  I did so once, a long time ago after he had accused me of being a liar when I wasn't. I used an attack that toby and dixie had used against me along time ago and I am ashamed for having done so.  It was wrong.  I have no reason to belive that southern man is anything other than a wonderful caring and loving father.  I came back to this board after a long absence and the very first thing that southern man does is call me a liar when I am not and did not... and the first thing I did was react and insinuate sexual misconduct on his part as a retaliation for his calling me a liar.  I dunno... for me, being called a liar is the most offensive thing anyone could ever say, and when someone calls me that, I guess my first and immediate reaction is to respond by attacking them with the most offensive thing from their perspective.  So... once and for all:  Southern man, or Yadkin or Glockmail or whatever he choses to call himself, has given me no reason to believe that he is anything other than a good father to his children.  He has called me a liar, which I am not, and that had pissed me off to the point that I reacted inappropriately and for that, I apologize.  
I will not, however, hold my breath and wait for an apology from HIM.  I am the better man and I can sleep easy knowing that.