"Your crowd" includes you and the others holding the same view about the family's physical characteristics, like many of those in this thread.
I honestly don't understand why you and some of the others on this thread have such reflexive negative views about Meghan, Diana, Catherine and Sarah, women you don't even know. Are you influenced by tabloids or what? These women have been hounded by the media from the minute they came into the public eye. Their lives, personalities, styles etc. have taken much more of a beating than those of the equally imperfect men they're linked to. But the men are given sympathy while the women are excoriated as ball-busters.
Example, I have never liked Camilla but she took the brunt of public disapproval while Chuck got a wave of the hand and "boys will be boys." Why was she more of a homewrecker than the cowardly Chuck? And why was Diana supposed to sit back and keep her mouth shut about Chuck's blatant infidelity? It seems the UK holds women in the RF to a much higher standard of behavior than the men. Did anyone ever call out Philip for his infidelities against Elizabeth? I doubt it. How about Snowdon and Margaret? Even his friends claimed that he had a sexual addiction and would pounce on anything that moved.
Furthermore, why is it bad for Harry to criticize his family but not bad for the Markles to criticize Meghan? I can see the weirdness in the two half-siblings (who were practically a generation older than Meghan and had little to do with her,) suddenly go to the media with their opinions that she's pond scum. And her father is beyond the pale with his grandstanding. These people had nothing to say about Meghan when she was an actress in a TV show but her relationship with Harry really brought out the hate and envy in them, especially Samantha. Do you think it's normal that Samantha had multiple Twitter accounts bashing Meghan? I think that's sick.
I believe you and the others in this thread have a double standard when it comes to the women in the monarchy vs. the men. I have way more respect for Diana, Sarah, Catherine and Meghan for what they had to put up with by marrying into this family, while for decades the men got a nod and a wink.